Why choose me?

Firstly, if you are looking at any kind of therapy - you are ‘in some kind of hole’.

Let me tell you a story…

A friend was walking down the street, fell into a hole and they were unable to get out themselves. A lady was walking past, so they asked her to help them. The lady said ‘I’m a Doctor’ and although I can’t pull you out of the hole, I can write you a prescription, and if you can get someone to get you the tablets, then take them. You may start to feel better in a months time, and if you do, let me know if you need any more - and I will write you another. She wrote the prescription and left.

Dismayed, my friend was still stuck and unable to get out. They then saw a man coming towards them. They shouted ‘I’m stuck in a hole, can you help me?’. The man said, I’m a counsellor, I haven’t got time to pull you out, but ‘tell me how you ended up being stuck down there?’ and ‘how do you think you you ended up down there?’ Sorry, I have to go, but I can see you in a month if you manage to get out, and we can chat about how you can avoid falling down that hole again.

Luckily for my friend, I then came down the street and saw them. They seemed relieved and asked if I could pull them out the hole. They couldn’t believe it when I jumped into the hole with them! ‘What are you doing’ they cried, ‘I wanted you to pull me out’. 

‘Don’t worry’ I said ‘I have already been in this hole before, and I know exactly how to get you out!’.